Therapy for people whose relationships, desires, and erotic lives resist simple answers.
Sex therapy and relationship therapy in Arcata, CA — and throughout California by telehealth.
For relationships and individuals beyond California's borders, coaching and consultation are available nationally and internationally.
Hi, I'm Elliott Sequoia Endre, MFT-CST.
I'm Elliott Sequoia Endre, LMFT-CST — a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist with nearly a decade in clinical practice, based in both Arcata and San Francisco, California.
I've devoted my life to supporting those seeking to be in sustainable relationships to money, sex, and power. I’m in service to healing from purity culture on the somatic level, healing the cultural relationship to the feminine beyond gender, and creating sustainable relationships to our inner and outer ecology.
I see clients in person in Arcata, throughout California by telehealth, and work with individuals and relationships beyond California's borders through coaching and consultation — because many of our most complex relational lives don't fit neatly inside one jurisdiction, one household, or one geography.
My clinical focus is on what doesn't fit standard templates: desire and values in conflict, relationships that need new agreements, bodies and identities in change, and the particular complexity that comes from living outside the mainstream frameworks for love, sex, family, and work. I've spent a decade doing this in individual sessions, with couples and relational constellations, in graduate classrooms at the Wright Institute and SFSU, and in rooms where the questions about money, sex, and power are neither separate nor simple.
If you've tried to explain your situation to someone and felt the framework was too small for it, this practice was built for that gap.
A significant part of the work I do lives at the intersection of money, sex, and power — because in most relationships, these are not separate territories.
Who earns what. Who pays for what. Who holds leverage and who feels indebted. The erotics of financial dependency. The power dynamics inside professional relationships that spill into personal ones. The specific complexity that sex workers, executives, artists, and anyone whose livelihood is entangled with their body or their relational identity navigates every day.
I am currently accepting new clients.
→ In-person therapy in Arcata, CA
→ Telehealth throughout California
→ Coaching and consultation nationally and internationally
Out-of-network provider. Superbills available upon request.
Free 15-minute consultation for all prospective clients.
Elliott-Sequoia’s Background
Elliott Sequoia Endre has worked in public health, human sexuality, and therapeutic practice in Britain, Germany, Canada, and the United States since 2003. They hold an M.A. in Integral Counseling Psychology from CIIS and a B.A. from Bryn Mawr College.
Their clinical training includes advanced supervision in sex therapy with Fiona O'Farrell, PhD, MFT, CST-S, and mentorship in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. They are a trainee at the Institute for Archetypal and Cross-Cultural Studies under Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés Réyes, Diplomate Senior Jungian Psychoanalyst.
They maintain faculty appointments at The Wright Institute in Berkeley, and San Francisco State University teaching on sexual and gender health and development and sexuality in counseling. They sit on the Board of Advisors for the NOWAK society, an organization at the intersection of psychedelic education, therapeutic ethics, and emerging clinical practice.
