Therapy for Relationships, Intimacy & Power

I offer therapy for the full ecology of intimacy — sex, yes, and also relationships, attachment, power, money, consent, repair, and the agreements with self and others that shape a life.

People find me when relationships need renegotiation. When money and power are shaping intimacy. When consent and interpretation have gone grey. When shame or secrecy are taking up space that belongs to something else.

This practice is a home for LGBTQIA+ folks, kink and leather communities, couples and constellations of all configurations people in devotion to or recovery from spiritual communities, and those integrating psychedelic experience. It is also for anyone whose body has learned to brace, comply, dissociate, or strategize around desire — and who want a different relationship to their own experience.

My practice is deeply informed by anti-racism, indigenous sovereignty, sex-positivity, and harm reduction.

I offer Somatic and Attachment-Focused therapy grounded in Womanist, Jungian, and Transpersonal Psychology. My primary modalities for relational work are Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy.

I offer in-person sessions in Arcata, CA, telehealth throughout California, and relationship coaching and consultation internationally for those beyond California's borders.